Friendship

  • GENERAL TIPS TO SHARE WITH YOUR CHILD

    • Teach your child to be aware of their personal space and of others and learn not to invade it.

    • Practice making and maintaining eye contact during conversations.

    • Pay attention during conversations. Don’t let your mind wander or daydream.

    • Learn how (and when) to begin and end a conversation politely.

    • Try not to monopolize the discussion. Remember, a dialogue is at least two-sided, so allow
      the other person (or people) to speak their mind (or minds).

    • Engage in self-monitoring — that is, adapt your behavior to reflect the social situation
      at hand. When you are with friends, feel free to let loose and act more relaxed
      and playful. At school, be attentive and responsive.

    • Think twice before speaking to avoid inappropriate comments.

    • Patience is a virtue. Allow others to finish speaking before you begin to talk. You wouldn’t
      want someone to interrupt your train of thought, would you?

    • Always be courteous — say please and thank you.

    Remind your child that practice makes perfect. The more you socialize the more confident you will become in social situations. And, make an effort to praise your child when he or she is being socially proper and is clearly striving to make a change in behavior.

Books

  • How to Be a Friend: A Guide to Making Friends
    and Keeping Them
    by
    Laurie Krasny Brown


    Learning to Be a Good Friend: A Guidebook
    for Kids
    by
    Christine A. Adams

    Trouble Talk by Trudy Ludwig

    Sorry by Trudy Ludwig

    Just Kidding by Trudy Ludwig

    Speak Up and Get Along!: Learn the Mighty
    Might,Thought Chop, and More Tools
    to Make Friends, Stop Teasing, and Feel
    Good About Yourself
     
    by
    Scott Cooper

     

    Friends Forever: How Parents Can Help
    Their Kids Make and Keep Good Friends

    by Fred Frankel